I’ll tell you what: almost everyone on Facebook has a secret admirer. Including you. Want to know if someone is flirting with you on Facebook? Keep reading, and I will show you the top 10 Facebook flirting signs your secret admirer keeps flashing in your face.
1. A Random Like From Nowhere
Okay, so you’re scrolling through Facebook and, boom, a random like to a picture or post you put up a while ago. One that isn’t even on the front page of your profile anymore. Guess what that is?
Of course, you are right. It is a flirting sign. Even though it may have been a mistake, and sometimes it is, seeing that stalkers sometimes forget to cover all tracks, it shows one thing—interest.
The person who keeps liking your old posts is showing you how interested they are in you.
2. Random Mentions
Flirting on Facebook begins with the establishment of a rapport. One very obvious flirting sign your secret admirer is going to give you is some random mention on some post you may not even be following.
The post may be something loving or just some random idea you do not resonate with. It just shows your secret admirer is thinking about you, and they want you to know it.
3. You Appear on Their Facebook Mentions
“Mention the fourth person on your list” Have you come across posts like this on Facebook before? Better believe you have a secret admirer in whoever mentions you in a post like this.
Mentions are a big Facebook flirting sign because they show that not only has your admirer been thinking about you, but they have also been checking and viewing your profile.
The Facebook algorithm works in a way that places profiles we engage with the most on the top area of the list that pops up when we tap “@.”
Try it. Tap “@,” and you’ll find the names that show up are the profiles you engage the most and ones that engage you the most.
This means when someone mentions us, they may be checking our profile frequently. Facebook mentions are a bigger flirting sign if the post you are mentioned or tagged to has some cute ring to it.
4. He Likes Your Comment on Some Random Page
Another top flirting sign a secret admirer often pulls is a random like on your comments from you.
They are able to see this comment because you are their friend on social media. It just pops there like “(your name) commented on a page you follow.”
To make it even clearer that they are trying to flirt with you, they may go on to like multiple comments, so it doesn’t feel like the first one you saw was a mistake.
5. They Often Engage Your Comments
Some admirers are bolder than others. While some will only engage your comments and activity by liking or reacting, others will flirt with you by engaging your comments.
It often looks something like a mini conversation because they will sound like they have spoken to you before. This is the rapport I spoke about earlier; this is where most of the flirting becomes clear.
If you are in an argument with someone, your admirer is often going to take your side. This doesn’t always happen, though. Sometimes they will antagonize you just so you notice them better.
6. The Text
What is more revealing of Facebook flirting than a random text from someone you just engaged in a comment?
Of course, their texting you is a pretty colossal sign they are flirting with you or that they find you interesting, no matter what the text is.
Some people go for a normal “Hello,” while others, especially ones with a huge sense of humor, make it a bit more dramatic and humorous.
You can often spot signs of Facebook flirting in the first couple of texts. Dramatic texts point towards obvious flirting, the same as too-dull ones.
7. They Talk About Your Looks in The DM
Some admirers may not be so bold to make cute comments on your posts because the public might see them.
But here is the thing, they will be bold enough to say it to you in the DM. And they will be quite expressive with the compliments, giving you even the littlest details.
For example, they may compliment you like this: “I think you looked really good in that picture you posted earlier. The white gown stuck to your skin just right.”
The detail means they had been observing and are trying to flirt.
8. They Talk About Your Opinions
So, minutes into the conversation and they are beginning to talk about your opinions. What do you think that is? It is the flirting with you, of course.
Remember, I mentioned that flirting on Facebook is basically establishing a rapport. Your admirer is trying to establish a rapport with you by putting your opinions on the table of discussion.
Later in the conversation, they will also put up theirs when things have gotten a bit stable. All the way, though, they are going to sound like they have known you for quite a while.
9. They Spam You
By spam, we do not mean an annoying number of irrelevant messages. We mean a number of pictures showing you how their day went or what they are up to.
Sending pictures is a top Facebook flirting sign. It screams: “Hey, I like you, so here are some pictures to make you like me back.”
Facebook admirers may also ask for your own pictures.
Once, an admirer told me: “Hey, can I have your pictures? Some of those you haven’t posted before. I want to see what no one else has.”
Heard this before? They’re trying to flirt with you.
10. They Tag You
When they have been able to speak to you privately, they will take it to the public. This is when you know they’re really flirting. They will put up pictures and tag you to them and may even call you cute names.
Bonus: you can know someone is flirting with you via text when they sure use a lot of emojis.
Flirting on Facebook is common. Look out for these Facebook flirting signs in people who engage in your post. Do you like them as well? If yes, then you may also engage them.